Archive for April, 2008

word for the day…silly words beginning with “P”

oh my goodness….I can’t stop giggling over this page from a favorite book of mine, “Weird and Wonderful Words” edited by Erin McKean.

I was only going to pick just one, honestly! But I can’t help it, I’m in a generous mood this morning…

So here are my three silly words for the day:

this one is an eponym, which we discussed earlier-

POOTER= a suction bottle used for gathering insects, named after FW Poos (1891-1987), an American entomologist.

(If my name became an eponym, I’d want it to mean a brilliant and slightly twisted idea(maker)! When problem solving, I’d want people to be looking for a Tegarden of a solution!)
PRONK= a weak or foolish person. The word is of uncertain origin, may come from a Dutch word meaning “fop”.

and my personal favorite:

PULMENTARIOUS= a rare word meaning, “made with gruel”.

See what I mean? I couldn’t resist them!

To The Dance!

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Animal Rights: the killing of wild wolves is unnecessary

 

Dear Animal Rights Advocates,

I know that many of you are concerned with the killing of wild wolves and the delisting of them from being on the Endangered Species List. Here is something you can do to help them regain legal protections from a very reputable organization called Earth Justice.
“At this moment, at least 20 wolves have already been killed in the northern Rockies and around Yellowstone National Park.

Earthjustice is using all the legal tools at our disposal to stop this tragedy as quickly as possible. Now that the Service has issues its final decision, the courts are the best way to stop the slaughter and get adequate protections reinstated for the wolves.

Learn more about what we’re doing to save these magnificent, iconic animals at: info@earthjustice.org

Sincerely,
Trip Van Noppen
President, Earthjustice”

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Sometimes all it takes is writing a letter!

Blessed Be to our furry brothers in the wild,
Diane T. aka rosefire walker

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What Happens When Two Irrisistible Women Meet?…..

Diane, Dec 2007

When two Irresistible Women Meet………find out what can happen on Tuesday April 29th!!

WHAT: Radio interview on “Irresistible Woman Talk Radio” hosted by Christina Wiley.

WHERE: www.ChristinaWiley.com/buildingyouup-talk
CALL IN# 347-945-6073

WHEN: Tuesday April 29th
TIME: 6pm PST/7pm MST/8pm CST/9pm EST

April is National Poetry Month and we’ll be celebrating this ancient expression of joy, pain, anger, happiness and delight.

If you grab an advance copy of my poetry ebook “Light Through Shuttered Window” you can choose your favorite poem for me to read live, on-air, to YOU! It’s a special hour of personal requests, for your listening enjoyment.

Here’s Christina Wiley’s testimonial for “Light Through Shuttered Window”:

“Diane, I have to say that I have a bit of a problem. In reading your book it is very hard to pick just one favorite! Poetry is truly a personal expression. Your poems are a gift to the reader. It’s a gift of the most personal kind and I found myself drawn in and as I read them I felt transported in time to share these experiences with you. You have an incredible talent and am so glad that you have shared it with us in your book, “Light Through Shuttered Window.” What a treat! I am so glad that it is now part of my personal library.”

Hope to “see” you on the radio,
Diane Tegarden, Author

“Getting OUT of Limbo-A Self Help Divorce Book for Women”- available at www.Amazon.com, www.Target.com and www.firewalkerpublications.com

“Light Through Shuttered Window- A Compendium of my Poetry”- available exclusively at: www.firewalkerpublications.com

“Anti-Vigilante and The Rips in Time”- available exclusively at: www.firewalkerpublications.com

 

 

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Why Aren’t More Women Voting for Hillary Clinton? The Death of Women’s Liberation

The American Flag

I am a supporter of Hillary Clinton, and lately the question has been asked in newspapers, networking groups and on-line forums “Why aren’t more women voting for Hillary Clinton?”

 

After much careful thought and research, here are some of the disturbing, defeating and disappointing answers that I have found.

 

1. There are very few social paradigms that women can use in order to relate to a woman in the role of the ultimate decision maker in a powerful position or role in everyday life.

 

This holds true in so many aspects of American life including;

 

A.  Yes, a woman can have power in her home as a mother (leadership of the children), but sometimes even here she will defer to a man or male figure if one is living in the household; whether it be a husband, father, brother, uncle or grandparent. This is conveyed by the single phrase “if you don’t behave, you wait until your father gets home”, which defers the ultimate authority in the house away from her onto the male authority figure; this will even happen with single mothers who have a live-in boyfriend.

 

 

B.  Yes, a woman can have power over small groups such as leadership of a Girl Scout troop (leadership of the children), or the PTA, or local city councils; however all these are situations where a group dynamic is in play, there’s no single dominant controlling position within these organizations or groups.

 

C.  In the education system, within the elementary and middle schools, the majority of the teachers are women (leadership of the children), but once you are at the high school level most of the female teachers teach what are known as the social sciences or “soft” subjects, such as English, the arts, and history; whereas men teach the “hard” subjects, such as science, mathematics, and chemistry. The principal of a high school is usually male, and the VP may or may not be female, again an example of women with a secondary but not ultimate decision making role.

 

D. No example of an American woman president (yet).

 

E. Yes, in the business world women have attained middle management or upper level management positions, but rarely make it to the top positions of (for example) the Fortune 500’s CEOs, CFOs or COOs.

 

According to CNNMoney.com in 2007 there were only 10 women CEOs, CFOs or COOs in the Fortune 500 (that’s only 2 percent), in 2006 there were only 7 out of 500 women in the top decision making positions (that’s only 1.4 percent) and in 2005 there were only 6 women running the top money making businesses in the world (that’s only 1.2 percent). (*1)

 

Yes, there are many women who have gone into business for themselves and therefore have the top position of CEO, CFO or COO, but again, without staff or employees you cannot say a person is in a leadership role unless they’re leading a group of people.

 

F. In religion (a powerful social tool), only a miniscule number of churches allow women in the top decision making positions or positions of power/authority.

 

Here is a random sampling of religions and their stance on women in positions of power:

 

Religion–Allows women priests/pastors, etc?–Number#–Ratio

 

Catholic-                                    N        (2001)           50,873,000      24.5%       

Muslim-                                      N        (2001)             1,104,000         .5%

Mormon(Church of LDS)-               N        (2001)            2,787,000         1.3%

Jehovah’s Witness-                      N        (2001)            1,381,000           .6%

Judaism-        Yes as of 1985(4)     Y        (2001)             2,831,000        1.3%      

Baptist-                                      Y/n     (2001)            33,830,000      16.3%

(up to each individual church, most have refused women into the ministry)

Buddhist-       Yes as of 1998,        Y/n     (2001)              1,082,000         .5%

                    but still extremely rare [8]

Paganism/ Goddess Worshipers-      Y        (2001)                 140,000  <less 1%>

Quakers/Friends Church                 Y        (2001)                   67,000 <less 1%>

                                                                                                             (Statistics from *3)

 

 “Many faith groups still refuse to consider women for ordination. Many teach that women have very specific roles, both in the family and in religious organizations where positions of authority and power are reserved for males. This list includes the Roman Catholic Church, all Eastern Orthodox churches, a minority of provinces within the Anglican Communion, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (the Mormons) and many Fundamentalist and other Evangelical Protestant denominations.”(*2)

According to a New York Times article dated February 14, 1985, “After years of debate, the worldwide governing body of Conservative Judaism has decided to admit women as rabbis. The group, the Rabbinical Assembly, plans to announce its decision at a news conference…at the Jewish Theological Seminary…”(4)

 

G. Examples are lacking in the judicial system, as “only two women have served on the U.S. Supreme Court during its first two hundred years of existence, Sandra Day O’Connor and Ruth Bader Ginsberg.” (5)

 

H. Examples are lacking in the political system; here are the sad facts:

 

Since Jeanette Rankin, over 170 women have been elected to the House of Representatives where they are now honored by the Women in Congress Web site.” (6)

 

Currently there are only 13 women in the Senate, along with 87 men, we comprise only 13 percent of the total number of Senators, while remaining approximately 51 percent of the national population. As you can see, we are vastly underrepresented.

 

Meanwhile in the massive House of Representatives, currently numbering 438, there are only 62 women, again coming in at a measly 14 percent of the total compared to the 376 men (86 percent). (7)

 

Remember, these are ELECTED officials, so women could elect more women to represent them in the place where our nation’s LAWS are made, yet, the statistics remain low.

 

With little or no experience of women in an ultimate decision making role, many women don’t trust a woman to have that kind of power.  It’s a Catch-22, if women aren’t allowed to show that we can lead how can people say that we won’t be good leaders?

 

Here are other reasons that some women may not vote for Hillary Clinton, but the list is not all inclusive nor does it apply to all women.

 

2. Some women are jealous of Hillary Clinton because she has the personal freedom and determination that they lack.  These women would never have the guts to stand up to the public scrutiny that Senator Clinton has, and hate her for being able to do so.

 

3. Some women feel comfortable with the societal restrictions on women and don’t want a change in the balance of power, so anyone who wants to change the balance in power is naturally an enemy.

 

4. Some women are Republicans so they won’t vote for her because of party affiliations; one legitimate reason for not voting for HRC.

 

5. Some women feel that they must vote along racial lines, and that is their prerogative, because in this election some women are voting along gender lines.

 

6. Some women are being pressured not to vote for a woman by their family, friends, church or other social group. (This is what I call “institutionalized sexism”.)

 

7. Believe it or not, a small percentage of women are chauvinists!

 

8. Some women have a “follow the crowd” mentality or think that “this is the way it’s always been, why fight it?” and without an example to go by, some women find it hard if not impossible to let go of the old ways.

 

With all this said, the fact that not enough women are supporting Hillary Clinton still perplexes me. 

 

 

Sources Cited:

1. The information on The Fortune 500: http://www.CNNMoney.com

 

2. Quote about religious tolerance:

http://www.religioustolerance.org/femclrg13.htm

 

3. Statistics on Religious Identification:

http://www.gc.cuny.edu/faculty/research_briefs/aris

City University of New York, the American Religious Identification Survey, 1990-2001

 

4. Ari Goldman, “Conservative Assembly votes to admit women as rabbis,” New York Time, 1985-FEB-14. Abstract at: http://select.nytimes.com

 

5. The Supreme Court: http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/awhhtml/awmss5/judg_attys.html

 

6. Women in Congress:

http://usgovinfo.about.com/library/weekly/aa121198.htm

 

7. Women in the House of Representatives and Senate:

http://ask.yahoo.com/ask/20011030.html

 

8. Women Buddhist Monks:

“Sri Lanka revived the ordination of women in Theravada Buddhism in 1998.”-http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/1814195.stm

Author’s Note: However, the first woman in Sri Lanka to be ordained wasn’t ordained until Feb 2002.

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Word for the Day- lyrical words that delight the ears

while doing some research for another article, I ran across this delightful word that simply entranced my ear……… 

chaulmoogra [Bengali: caul=rice + mugra=hemp; hemprice]
Any genus of trees from tropical Asia, whose oil is used in a treatment for leprosy.(!)
 

share some of your favorite words, simply because they sound…wonderful…entrancing…lyrical

BB,
Diane T. and furfamily


 


 

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Therapuetic Poetry- Join us for this unique Poetry Reading April 23rd

Dear Wordmeisters,
Since April is National Poetry Month, Dr. Sally Witt and I will be talking about how creative writing can release some of the negative effects from the events that have happened in our lives.

WHAT: Radio interview on Talk Radio hosted by Dr. Sally Witt, Breakthrough Coach.

WHERE: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/drsallywitt
CALL IN# (347)945-5237

WHEN: Wed April 23rd
TIME: 9am PST/ 10am MST/11am CST/ 12noon EST

Poems and creative writing can express emotions that may be otherwise hidden deep within, and release that negativity from your mind and body.

These poems are deeply personal and convey strong messages of pain, hope, sadness and redemption.

If you grab an advance copy of my poetry ebook “Light Through Shuttered Window” you can choose your favorite poem for me to read live, on-air, to YOU! It’s a special hour of personal requests, for your listening enjoyment.

Grab a box of tissues, and join us!

Energetically Yours,

Diane Tegarden

Author:

“Getting OUT of Limbo-A Self Help Divorce Book for Women”- available at www.Amazon.com, www.Target.com and www.firewalkerpublications.com

“Light Through Shuttered Window- A Compendium of my Poetry”- available exclusively at: www.firewalkerpublications.com

“Anti-Vigilante and The Rips in Time”- available exclusively at: www.firewalkerpublications.com

 

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Portal Goddesses-Tonanzin, the Vigen de Guadalupe, the Virgin Mary

The Virgin Mary, Tonanzin

Portal Goddesses

Tonanzin, the Vigen de Guadalupe, the Virgin Mary

Portal goddesses lead us into a religion and then open the doors to Spirituality. Perhaps the most famous portal goddess is the Virgin Mary, whose brown sister in Mexico is known as the Vigen de Guadalupe, and whose ancient Mother was Tonanzin, the Aztec Creatrix.

The story of how the Vigen de Guadalupe revealed herself to Juan Diego in 16th century Mexico, is a well-known one. On Tepeyac Hill (on the same spot that the Temple of the ancient Goddess of Earth and Corn, Tonanzin, had stood before the Spanish conquest), a dark skinned, pregnant Indian woman appeared to the young boy, Juan Diego.

She asked the child to have a new church built on the same site as her ancient ancestress, Tonanzin. As proof of her appearance to the child, she pointed at a cactus and it grew roses, the symbol of the heart and of the unconditional love of a mother. Like Tonanzin and the Virgin Mary, who are both called “Our Mother”; she represents a nurturing, caring maternal Creatrix as the face of deity.

The Lady of Guadalupe came as a protector, a refuge from the new, angry God and his war like European hosts. She became the patron saint of Mexico, a symbol of protection from tyranny and invasion.

With the millions of Catholics who adore and worship the Virgin Mary all over the world today, she is indeed a very important entry (portal) into the world of the ancient feminine divine known as Goddess.

Who is your portal Goddess? Who is the face of the ancient feminine divine, for you?

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Here’s one of our filk songs, to the tune of “My Favorite Things”

My hubby and I had been writing song parodies for years before I ran into the word that described it as a separate type of music. I’m such a wordmeister that I was in paroxysms of joy upon learning the word “filk”!

Here’s one of our filk songs, to the tune of “My Favorite Things”:

More Bad….words by Diane Tegarden (C)1991

Witches on broomsticks and whiskers on kittens,
knitting the dog into warm woolen mittens,
big cauldrons filling with all kinds of slag,
riding the wind with my favorite hag.

When the rat bites,
when the bat stings,
when I’m feeling bad,
I simply remember my favorite things,
and then I can feel-
More bad!

Freaking the neighbors
with singing and howling,
burning the fence down,
and cackling and yowling.
Big pregnant moon
caught up in a swing,
These are a few of my favorite things…

When the rat bites,
when the bat stings,
when I’m feeling bad,
I simply remember my favorite things,
and then I can feel-
more bad!

Author’s Notes

“WHAT THE HECK IS FILK MUSIC?
by Nick Smith- from http://www.filk.com

Well, it’s sort of like folk music. It is a mixture of song parodies and original music, humorous and serious, about subjects like science fiction, fantasy, computers, cats, politics, the space program, books, movies, TV shows, love, war, death. . .

Filk music started off forty or fifty years ago, at science fiction conventions, where people got together late at night to have good old-fashioned folk music song circles. Well, late night circles being what they are, some folks got a little silly and started singing song parodies about their favorite SF books and authors. Fans started writing song parodies about themselves or each other. Some started composing serious songs about favorite topics.”

And that’s where it all began!

Energetically Yours, Diane Tegarden
“Getting OUT of Limbo-A Self Help Divorce Book for Women”-http://www.amazon.com
“Light Through Shuttered Window- A Compendium of my Poetry”- available at
http://www.firewalkerpublications.com

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Hopitu Shinumu Wheel of the Year

The Hopi Wheel of the Year differs a bit from the Celtic calendar in that instead of four quarters, we divide the year into a 6 month/6 month cycle; beginning with Soyal, December 21st (winter solstice) and the second cycle begins with Niman, summer solstice, June 21st.

The Wheel of the Year is the name for the calendar, but also brings an awareness that everything is located on a great spiral, from the cosmos themselves, to the sun traversing the sky.

It depicts the seasons as they change, and that time is somewhat circular, in that the cycle of life/death/rebirth/life is one continuous wheel that turns as time passes.

Many of the Celtic celebrations didn’t “sync-up” with my internal calendar for years (I’ve lived in the southwest most of my life). Then I started studying and practicing the Hopitu Shinumu ways of the people who’ve lived on this same land where I live.

The Hopi calendar makes more sense for this climate, the weather and the changes in seasons here than does the Wiccan calendar, although I’ll always have a special place in my heart for many of the Wiccan holidays (especially Beltane).

I practiced eclectic Wiccan paths for over 12 years before I began studying/practicing the native ways and am a big fan of remaining on an eclectic path. It keeps my spirit of inclusion and growth alive!

Please join us in an old fashioned Full Moon Chanting Circle this coming Sunday 20th; the Hopi Full Moon of April is called Kapana, the planting moon.

BURN BRIGHTLY,
Diane “Esthana Thlehiya”
the rosefire walker

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If your name became a word all on its own, what would you want it to mean?

If your name became a word all on its own, what would you want it to mean?

 

Eponyms: from Greek: eponumos, meaning=named after

 

An eponym means “A person whose name is or is thought to be the source of the name for something, such as: Romulus is the eponym of Rome”.

 

Here are a few examples you may or may not be acquainted with:

 

I ran across this gem in the research for my science fiction novel, “Anti-Vigilante and The Rips in Time”-

Coriolis force: A fictitious force used mathematically to describe motion, as of aircraft or cloud formations, relative to a noninertial, uniformly rotating frame of reference such as the earth. Named after Gaspard G. de Coriolis (1792-1843).

 

Hertz: A unit of frequency equal to one cycle per second, used in the measurement of electricity. Named after Heinrich R. Hertz (1857-1894).

 

Chauvinist- originally meant extremely, fanatically patriotic. Named after Nicholas Chauvin, a legendary French soldier, the word has now degenerated into meaning a sexist man. Talk about your pejoration!

 

Mudd- When someone says “your name is Mudd”, it means your reputation is besmirched and your career ruined. Dr. Samuel Mudd was the doctor who treated the broken leg of John Wilkes Booth, the actor who shot President Lincoln. Booth broke his leg in his escape attempt, and after an investigation Dr. Mudd was convicted of knowledge of the assassination conspiracy, and sentenced to life in prison. In 1869 Andrew Johnson, then President of the US, pardoned Dr. Mudd, but it was too late, his name was Mudd and history stamped his name to portray a “traitor” to this day!

Energetically Yours, Diane Tegarden

Author:

“Getting OUT of Limbo-A Self Help Divorce Book for Women”- available at www.Amazon.com, www.Target.com and www.firewalkerpublications.com

“Light Through Shuttered Window- A Compendium of my Poetry”- available exclusively at: www.firewalkerpublications.com

“Anti-Vigilante and The Rips in Time”- available exclusively at: www.firewalkerpublications.com

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