A Pet is not a Child, some say…..by Diane Tegarden

my boys huggingA pet is not a child, some say…
(C) April 23, 2010
By Diane Tegarden

mellys faceA pet is not a child, some say,
but let’s just think on that,
as you watch your pet born into the world
you share its first moments.

lil and melly2You teach your furkids all the rules
the do’s and don’ts of life,
you teach them manners and morals,
to always do what’s right.

melly 2008There are things they should
and should not do
and consequences
for acting out.

MelanieThey must not destroy your possessions,
not to mention your house,
they must not tear up your garden
or your slippers, clothes and shoes.

In what way are they not our children?

3 kitties on bedYou buy them their own bed and toys
and teach them to share with their siblings,
you frown when they play too rough and
pray they behave when company comes over.

friday-sept2002When they get sick, you rush them to the doctor
and hold them when they cry.
Once a year, they get their shots
to keep them bright and healthy.

melly june 2008-2Then, there are all those special dates
like birthdays, to remember,
as well as all those duller tasks,
like taking them to the dentist.

baby Ivan snuggled in blanket, March 2012You hurt when they are hurt,
and you can feel their pain,
you cry inside, and try to be brave
as you sit helplessly cuddling them.

In what way are they not our children?

bit in a basketAs they mature, you watch them grow,
taking tons of pictures and videos.
They soon outgrow your baby toys
and cute little childhood habits.

frankie and silky-3As adults,
they may have children of their own,
and then you’re a grandparent
wondering where the time went.

Gray Beau2Then comes the time
when they start to show their age,
they scamper less and lounge in the sun
their movements growing slower.

Sylvester in bed mar 07You must be careful with them
because now they are older, arthritis in the joints
causes them to move much slower
and their eyes to grow much dimmer.

In what way are they not our children?

lil and tootsie  nov 2007You feed them special diets
and herbal supplements,
you massage their tired bones,
with special lineaments.

friday_rapkittyThen comes the day you have dreaded
when heart and mind must fail,
you’re never ready for them to go
but one day, they simply leave you.

broken heartAnd the hole in your heart seems to bleed without stopping,
everything reminds you of them.
There is nothing that can be said or done
to ease the pain that they are now gone.

mellys faceAs years go by,
you realize that they cannot be replaced,
you build memorials and talk about them
and honor their memories.

In what way are they not our children?


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